Friday, March 09, 2007
now i feel like writing somethings personal.
and im gonna write my thoughts. (also cos ive nth to do nw n i dont wanna slp .haha)
rather than talk abt wad i did today and etc.. too superficial.
But first, to tell you more about myslf.
hoho.(let you know more abt me wad!if not you read my blog for wad?! :] )
(and i know you love me, you wanna know me , you wanna kiss me , you wanna hug me.tsktsk. haha.)
I THINK...
like what i wrote on my msn msgr nick.
Its good to have confidence in yourself, but too much confidence leads to self denial and self denial is pointless.
Elaborating..
there's just someone i know , and you'll nv know who . shall call him/her LALA.
(okay, if you think its you, its not you . Bcos LALA will not admit its her/him bcos LALA's in LALA's own world of self denial.)
LALA's so getting on my nerves.
actually not luh.
LALA's just so incorrigible sometimes.
Yes, its true , you should have confidence.
you should have confidence in the things you do.
which is also called faith.
BUT, have confidence in yourself in a humble way will ya?
and dont have confidence in yourself until you look down on others and criticise others.
Bcos you never know.. You may think you are *super nice looking when you're not.
Have confidence in yourself ! Think you are Hot! BUT, dont think you are hotter than others.
preferbly , just think that everyone's the same luh?where's the humility in this world?
More about LALA,
LALA thinks he/she's so HOT and claims that she/he just has confidence when he/she's downright in self denial.
In fact, she/he's lower than average in looks and in character. And LALA was boasting to me about how hot she/he is and that many of the opp sex is attracted to him/her.
Sometimes i just wanna tell him/her ." Can you get a hold on yourself and not be so desperate? people just say you're nice bcos they respect you , and they may not want to hurt you or they understand humility (bt hey, when you do some actions or say some things not to hurt someone, can you do it so the person you're doing/saying it to will not discover it. If not, the hurt you give is double the hurt you do not want to give .And if you show it on purpose, you're a hypocrite.)
Yea, so ,over confidence leads to self denial.
and i do not wanna tell the above-above (my lang.) to LALA.
Bcos LALA 's SO in self denial, he/she'll think "WHATEVER."
Hais. things are so contradicting.
Praise is good.
Its the showing of the appreciation you have of him/her .(and also that at least you have a heart)
But too much praise makes someone overly-conceited and results in too much confidence.
So what do we do? Do we praise or do we not?
Things are SO complicating. (if you think about it.)( But maybe you should not , so that you wont kill too much/many(can brain cells be counted?afterall, they're particles) brain cells .hoho)
What i suggest, is , everyone be humble! and not be over confident including LALA.
And if everyone is humble, LALA will not have to worry that, she's too humble that other's are stepping over her. Because everyone would be humble and everyone would be equal . yay!
Have confidence in yourself ! bt do not think others are worse than you.(maybe ,its a fact that other's are worse than you, but have a heart and dont make it obvious.If you sincerely want others not to feel bad and you're not acting it out, its not hypocrisy! =D )
So, simply to put it, do not show your over-confidence (which also results to proudness) in action or verbally to others. Just have the mentality that " hey, we're both HOT " or "Hmms. he/she's not HOT in fact, bt,hmms i shall not hurt her/his feelings, so, i shall think we're both HOT or not say anything mean or be mean on purpose at all" or just say " you're HOT " in yur goodness of will. (okay. this paragraph is SO NOT simply to put it.bt aiya. diff to explain mah. )
SO , SAY YOU'RE HOT! ( I'M HOT!) BUT PLEASE, DONT SAY IT LIKE YOU MEAN IT.
(I'M HOTTER THAN EVERYONE!) but come on, you know im kidding. (i dont give a im-hotter-than-everyone's face okay. :D)
okay. i think im burning too much brain cells.
5:00 AM
I love you.